Wednesday 26 October 2016

TRAUMA OF A RAPE VICTIM


The most immediate person affected by sexual violence is the VICTIM or SURVIVOR. It  is important  to note that  Rape Trauma,  as  it's  given  in medical   terms  is    very  grievous.

Whether   it   was   Ten   days    ago  or  Ten  years  ago,   emotions   and   thoughts  may seem  overwhelming following  a   SEXUAL ASSAULT.

Rape is nature intentionally designed to produce psychological trauma, a form of organised social violence.

I have paraventure heard from some people term rape as simply being unwanted sex, whereas the victim suffer Post Traumatic Stress, Disorder, affecting both physical. behavioural and psychological levels.

PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS:

I). SHOCK - A rape victim experience Instant Shock, Feverishness, Mentally Abused, or Confused, Nausea, FEAR.

II). Tension Headaches

III). Pain

IV). Nightmares

V). Flashback

VI). Low Self Esteem

VIII). Depression

IX). SCARS -  scars around the body, bruises, cuts, or perhaps other injuries causing bleeding, cuts in the virgina possibly leads to infections or sexually transmitted diseases.

VICTIMS BEHAVIOURAL SYMPTOMS:

1. FEAR

2. HATRED

3. RESTLESSNESS

4. VERY ALERT AND WATCHFUL

5. GENERAL CHANGES - Lifestyle, Changing Jobs, Schooling ...

6. Very Aggressive / Anger

7. Sadness

8. Isolation

9. Lack of Concentration

10. Denial

11. Embarrassment


SOLUTION:
 
First of all is to make victim seek a professional counsellor during the period of assault. 

Recovery is slow, which doesn't come easily without pain.

Survivor must heard, and must be convinced they're understood.

Constant guide and counselling.

It is more about learning better ways of coping with trauma and letting fear go.



References:
Rape Crisis Cape Trust, South Africa
American Academy of Experts or Traumatic Stress. (www.aaets.org)
 
 
 















 

Sunday 9 October 2016

*I REMEMBER...V A N I T Y !*

*I REMEMBER...V A N I T Y !*
 
✍ I vividly recall the story of a man who became popular for *engaging in money rituals just to buy the 80's edition of the Honda Prelude*; you wouldn't buy that car for 20,000 Naira today. Vanity!!!🤔
 
✍ A guy brutally murdered his brother, *just because he wanted to acquire the rave of the moment - 1989 Nissan Pathfinder SUV*. That same vehicle is now better described as a coffin....Vanity!🤔
 
✍ I remember as a kid, my whole street gathered at a neighbour's house *to watch a "drama" shown on a "Double-Door Black & White Television"*. Today, there is Plasma Television and its almost found in every student's room. By the way BANG OLUFSEN goes for over $12,000 per T.V.....Vanity!🤔
 
✍ Some ladies left their true love *because some rich guy persuaded them with a Benz 190 American Spec., 1988-1989 model, which turned out to be the only car they ever owned till date.* Later found out too late that true love is invaluable.....Vanity!!!🤔
 
✍ What about *V.W Santana or Audi, Mercedes Benz V-Boot, Peugeot 505 Evolution, Toyota Crown...?*of the early 80's, all overtaken by *latest models of Camry, Honda, Bugatti, Bentley, X6, Acura and Infinity....* Vanity!!!🤔
 
✍ A guy declared drinks *because he launched the Nokia 3310 Mobile Phone in 2002.* Today, that phone would embarrass the owner and is a joke compared to the low cost and everyday phones..... Vanity!!!🤔
 
✍ What about the *MTN SIM Card that many Nigerian's went extra miles, bought for over 30,000 Naira?* Today, you will not buy it anywhere because all networks are begging people to even take it for free...Vanity!!!🤔
 
*People are still making the most horrific sacrifices over VANITY and make enemies over WORTHLESS MATERIAL THINGS!* 😔😔😔
 
What can I say??🤔
 
👉 *Look back at that one thing you want to kill or die for today; in your Marriage, Office, Family, Community... and see what becomes of it tomorrow.* Just think about it!🤔
 
👉 *There is absolutely nothing you can't achieve... PLEASE TAKE IT EASY!* 🙏🙏🙏
 
👉 All you need is a *Little Time , PATIENCE, Absolute Obedience and Trust in God* and *you would thank God without regrets.*😄
 
👉 *There is actually nothing in this world that is worth going to HELL for. ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!*🤔
 
👉 *YOUR MONEY, POWER AND ARROGANCE CANNOT TAKE YOU TO HEAVEN; BUT ONLY YOU AND YOUR GOOD DEEDS WILL!!!*
 
👉 Please *be heaven focus*; your eternal place of glory, peace and joy.
 
👉 *BECAUSE LIFE IS TOO SHORT AND FULL OF VANITY AND DECEIT.*🤔
 
👉 *50 YEARS IS JUST 2,500 WEEKENDS!!!* 😧😧😧
 
*TAKE IT EASY!!!*🙏🙏🙏
Save a soul today!!
Please tell somebody to take a PEEP on this URL
 
By: Rotimi Duyile
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Friday 7 October 2016

MAN CHARGED FOR RAPING

https://www.yahoo.com/news/west-virginia-man-charged-raping-murdering-nine-month-193036949.html West Virginia man charged with raping, murdering nine-month-old girl